Being an engineering student I would say the use of this
phrase is directly proportional to year! I.e. as years pass by this phase is
more extensively used out here! And whereas staying with other people is
concern you will more often come across it! Well it certainly starts with
different people have different priorities and in initial phase people try to
adjust but as time passes by thing get tougher to work with!
Before people preferred join families and relationships were
above all! (Surprisingly! Even when men and women were unequal! And a women is
always empowered when is promoted from wife to mother-in-law but more on that
later!) Now a day’s career, money is given more importance staying away from
the family for the family bla bla bla. Though the positive side is people come
to know their importance! But the main thing is between all this we come across
different people from different societies, culture, and background! Let’s take
my life for example. I was born in Mumbai (one of my favorite cities indeed)
later on we moved to a small town for a dream house in between nature and which
meant I had to stay away from home for further education and stuff! It’s
nothing that I am damn serious about my career or something! It’s just that m
chasing my dream working in lab! Late night work and stuff! Well it’s just a
dream still! Anyways the thing is upto date I have stayed with many people! Let
that be paying guest, roomies or hostel. And every time I ended up using this
phase!
First time I opted for paying guest! Seriously! How can you
stay with people around trying to penetrate in your life! Oh yeah you don’t
know something about personal space! With aunties always hanging around and
keeping an eye on you! Are you jobless? Well that people with penetrating thing
is for example an orthodox and unorthodox cannot stay together for long!
Anyways even if you ignore it some day or the other it gets on your nerves! And
when people around you are not at all sporty weekend tend to be damn boring!
Trust me! You feel like getting out of everything! And don’t get me started on
the surrounding! When jerks stay around either you wanna kill them or keep
distance! Well I kept my distance and went off!
Roomies!!! Sounds fun!! Friends forever!!! Owe your my best
friend! We will stay together forever!! Trust me people who come closer near
you actually carry the sign board ‘KEEP DISTANCE-DANGER AHEAD!’ never ever fall
in their trap! You will not only regret this but will also lose a friend! It’s
fun until you party together hangouts and stuff but if it’s always you paying
the bill! That not done right? And when people always use your things it’s NOT
CALLED SHARING! It’s all bearable until your roomie is the most unclean dirty
crap of this world! (Even when you have a boyfriend)
PS: keep your bed however you want! I don’t care but if you
dance on my bed with dirty legs trust me I am killing you within! And I love
sleeping with books, soft toys and guitar and you have no right to tag it!
Because it’s completely mine!
Then came my hostel life back! J Yeah! I have been a host
elite in my school life! So was pretty excited until I came to know that my
roommate was an old lady! Nah... Generation gap actually! Which made me always
call her aunty! So I preferred mam or teacher since she actually was by
profession. I always kept in mind Pawar sir’s words “our life is not enough for
us so we better learn from our elder’s experience” but she turned it into
“elders love taunting you and will use you as a child labor!”
I changed back to a cute ACTING little girl! Trust me when I
highlighted the word I meant it and it was true! Surprisingly I can to know
about it too late! But that time I had mastered the art of ignoring. Stare at
you when you dress up as if some black magic going on in your mind, give out
cheap comments which make you kick their butts in your head, taking advantage
and being mean to other people even though it’s not of you concern! It really
feels helpless when you cannot do anything! All you have to do is concentrate
on your work and let people around you continue to be mean! May be one day they
would realize! Who cares! I might have moved ahead till that time and may never
ever look back! Well now it’s my time to be selfish!
Dedicated to the mot selfish girl I have ever met!
Since I am not full filled removing all my angry out here I
will help you recognize her!
1.
Caring at start but as soon as she comes to know
you are useless will no longer care even if you are dead!
2.
Always concerned about her stuff even when she
could save both boats!
3.
Miser forever!
4.
You will be in her friend list only if you are
good looking, wealthy or topper (IIT or IIM will work!)
5.
Will always demand things. (Poor boyfriend I
must say!)
Five points are enough I guess! J
Now you know the secret behind my calm and
tolerant nature! J
I feel good now!
Oh crap I must say! ‘SELFISH PEOPLE OUT
HERE!’
